by Jenise » Wed Nov 08, 2023 3:44 pm
Jeez.
Speaking of this kind of thing, I had a situation a few weeks ago. I live in a tiny little county. There is still a newspaper here but it's a POS, and has very few subscribers. In fact, a recent civic problem in which the county's intent to do something in my area was published in that paper resulted in all of us (including City Hall) learning that the public had not been suitably notified since the Herald only has 83 subscribers in the affected area at this end of the county. So by comparison, the fact that I have over 1200 local followers of my little foodie Facebook page is more meaningful than you might otherwise think. My opinion does fill seats, so you might call me an influencer.
I dine anonymously in the restaurants I go to. My motive isn't free food, it's to help the industry around here thrive a little more than it would otherwise. My page fills a void. How else do people find out about great local food without someone like me?
I have a good friend with a wine blog. She's not a critic per se and doesn't try to be one. She is a bona fide journalist turned PR specialist, however, and she takes a rah-rah approach to posting about the wineries who supply the wines. In many cases it's the same wineries over and over, relationships she cultivated years ago, and she's hooked up with several distributors or people who work for distributors to put people like her in touch with wineries looking for free advertising which she earns with her wine reviews. (She has like 11,000 followers on her Twitter feed.) And she goes on paid junkets which includes meals and accomodations.
So two weeks ago my brother, his partner, Bob and I went out to lunch at a local bistro. I know the chef there and asked if he was in. He wasn't. We placed our orders, and I playfully texted Wolf to say, "I'm here, where are you?" I just wanted him to know that I'd been in. Well out came the chef on duty to let us know that our entire meal was on the house. After lunch they sent out a bunch of desserts, though we'd ordered none. I posted a great review, as deserved, paid for the wine we ordered from the list and left a whopper of a tip for our most excellent waitress.
So a few days later I was on the phone with the wine blogger. She asked about this lunch and I mentioned that Wolf had comped it, which wasn't about me but about what a great guy Wolf is. She bristled that I had not revealed in my review that the meal had been comped because in her line of work it was essential. Well, exCUUUUSE me! I had to tell her: this was not a junket. I was not invited to the restaurant, I walked in there as a customer freely choosing where to dine and intending to pay for our meal like everybody else. We did not order everything on the menu nor did we add to our order once we learned it would be comped. It was comped because the chef is a friend (who I knew from another restaurant in another town before he got this gig) and my previous reviews have already proven good for his business. That was him saying thank you. The meal being free did not change the praise given one iota.
Anyway, her criticism really irked me as you can tell. I do not do what I do for personal gain. I don't want free anything. How she could confuse my facts with hers, I don't know.
My wine shopping and I have never had a problem. Just a perpetual race between the bankruptcy court and Hell.--Rogov