Carl was recovering from a cold and I was just catching his. I managed to push my way through our traditional New Year's dinner preparation, but not without stops and starts and off-timing on everything. Two annoying "friends" dropped in just as I was pulling the rib roast off the grill. I asked where they were headed all dressed up and pretty. They said, "just making our rounds". We tried to entertain them for about 30 minutes, but made no special effort between Carl's hacking and sneezing and my stepping on the food items I seemed to keep dropping. Then the wife saddled up to me and said, "things always look and smell so good in here - do you mind if we invite ourselves to dinner?" Without thinking, I said, sure - why not (in that 'nothing else could possibly go wrong' tone). Within 5 minutes she and her husband said, "we're going to go home and change clothes, we'll see you in about 30 minutes, after we get comfortable". They wanted to know if I wanted them to pick up anything for me on their way back over?
Really?! You have invited yourself to dinner and you need to ask if you should bring anything??!!
I was not feeling good, and definitely not feeling in the mood for company -- especially this company. About 5 years ago we invited them to New Year's day dinner, which I prepare every year for my family and on occasion I invite a few friends. We haven't invited them since (they have no sense of proportion), but every New Year's day they manage to make their rounds and find themselves at our dinner table on their last stop. This year it annoyed me that the woman asked to invite themselves to our table - yet again. Who the hell does that?! The more I thought about it, the more annoyed I got, until I finally got angry at the impertinence and assumption of it all. I got on the phone and rescinded the invitation telling them they could come by the next day and get a bowl of gumbo if there was any left.
I was mad at myself for even accepting their behavior the past few years. It occurs to me that they always manage to wrangle a meal out of us every time they are here. They always arrive empty-handed, and they never invite us to their home for dinner or a meal out. Sometimes I wonder why we ever invited some people into our lives. The next day they did not call to see how we were feeling nor come by for a bowl of gumbo. I hope never to see them again. If not, that would be the start to a great New Year. If they do come back by, I'm going to go there with them. I need to start 2017 off in a better place! GEESH!
DINNER:Chitterlings
Prime Rib Roast (5 bones)
Black eyed peas
Collard greens with ham hocks
Dirty Rice
Yams with apples and Calvados
Seafood Gumbo
white rice
corn bread
peach cobbler
lemon pound cake