I now know that chili is not intended as a "topping" but a creation all unto itself! I now enjoy it that way when eaten outside of home. Being a meat guy, I do enjoy thicker chilis. I suppose spiciness is what can either accent or break chili, to my taste. Being a mild kinda guy (in more ways than one...haha), I find that overly hot seasonings "distract" from the wholesome substance of the chili itself. Yet I'm sure some might find their taste for it to be just the opposite.
So what "makes" chili for you? Is it the consistency? A particular proportion of ingredients? Secret beans? A secret spice?
Grabbing a spoon and licking my lips...

Jeff