Hi Dwight,
Sorry your dealing with this. I feel your pain...my 2 1/2 yr old is allergic to eggs too (as well as dairy, wheat, and many many other things). Our only saving grace is he isn't allergic to soy.
As far as recipes that require baking, ie pancakes, cakes, etc...I used an egg replacer called EnerG egg. It is basically a leavening agent (baking soda/baking powder). It works very well in anything that is baked. However, you can not use it as a binding agent...nor a replacement for anything "custard" like.
So for pancakes, cakes, or muffins, I use the EnerG egg replacer. You can buy it at most health food stores or online here:
https://www.ener-g.com/store/detail.asp ... at=8&id=97
I also find that adding some applesauce to sweet applications and carrot or zucchini puree to savory recipes, helps with binding and moisture retention. Also I do add a little extra canola oil (usually a couple of teaspoons) again for texture and moisture.
For things that need binding or custards, I normally use tofu, since my son can have soy. Since you don't have that option, I would *try* applesauce again in sweet applications and lentil or chickpea puree in savory (ie, meatballs, meatloaf). You can use emulsfying agents for salad dressings. Some are Xanthan Gum or Guar Gum and you can get those also at health food stores.
I also wanted to let you know both my children drink enriched rice milk, instead of cows milk or soy milk. The brand I buy is by Rice Dreams, and you can get it in original, vanilla, or chocolate. Just make sure you get the one that is enriched with vitamin D and Calcium.
You should check out the The Food Allergy & Anaphylaxis Network. Here's the website:
http://www.foodallergy.org/
For more support/questions/recipes about food allergies, I am part of another forum. You are welcome to come by and post or just lurk for info. It is a BB under Pregnancy.org, but you do not have to be pregnant or a woman to join or lurk LOL! Here is the website:
http://www.pregnancy.org/bulletinboards ... rune=&f=95
I post there under "citysides"
Food allergies are definitely challenging and when I first learned about my son's allergies (at age 8 months) I was devastated...especially being a foodie. And I won't lie, there are foods I just don't make anymore because I am afraid of exposure or cross contamination...like French toast, or quiche, or eggs in general
. Also, be prepared to bake everything from scratch. I have to bring special cookies and cupcakes when my son goes to bday parties. But it does get easier, and your child has a 93% chance of outgrowing it, so there is hope.
Please feel free to PM me if you have any questions.
"Wine makes daily living easier, less hurried, with fewer tensions and more tolerance" -Benjamin Franklin