by Hoke » Mon Aug 24, 2009 12:31 pm
Every picture tells a story, don't it. (apologies to Rod)
Every photo in and of itself is valid. Every photo will be interpreted by every person according to that person's leanings (or needs). Each and every response to the photo is singular, although we know there is likely a commonality of sorts that exists, a "basic" predictable range of response.
What I don't know, I have to fill in the blanks. How I fill in those blanks tells me (and others) much about me, and who I am.
I respond to it in two ways: one response is regret for the child and anger at the parents. The child is a product of what the parents encourage or allow; she is not a fully formed and responsible being, and depends on the guidance of those parents. Barring some sort of disease or disorder (which would be unlikely but possible) this child has been trained to be obese---and childhood conditioning is one of the most difficult things to overcome, so much of her course is set now.
But it's not simply the obesity: it's the "WALL-E" effect. You have to have seen the picture to know what I'm talking about.
So there is a part of me that wants to be sanctimonious and righteous, and to scream at the parents/family for creating this child's situation.
Another part of me, the part that is overweight and could shed more than a few pounds, the part that enjoys indolence at times, and sensuousness, and sensuality, and abhors exercise, and can't fit as easily into some clothing that used to fit---that part is uncomfortable and embarrassed. Because I'm not a child, didn't have that problem as a child, and bear only my own responsibility for my situation now. And yet, I don't do anything about it.
We are, all of us, capable of sanctimony. Some more than others. Things that apply to others don't apply to us. Ask Rush Limbaugh. Ask those Medicare recipients that are screaming to apoplectic levels about the evils of 'socialized medicine'. Ask people that are smug and comfortable (and comfortably padded) who are ready to criticize others for being only slightly less disciplined than they.
So excuse me: I have to go rant about other people; then I have to go beat my breast.