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WTN: The First Noel and 1995 Margaux

by Covert » Fri Dec 17, 2010 11:11 am

After drinking our portions of a second 1995 Margaux, rated 100 by Winespectator and 95 by Parker, Lynn and I are still discussing and trying to understand what a First Growth means. Cognoscente since the 1700s have agreed that Margaux, Margo, or whatever it has been called since its beginning, is among the best of the best. So why do we like 2003 Cantemerle more? I guess our sense of style is not the same as the experts. We like a little more funk, more earth, more imperfection, etc., than what the perfect and near perfect wines afford. This wine’s nose tells me it is a First Growth – it has that kind of class. The finish is very long, as well. The midpalate however lacks richness of mouthfeel, and it does not have the concentration of beautiful, classy Cabernet Sauvignon that I would need to rate a wine best of the best for me. What it has is perfect, but it is reticent, almost a little too dry. There is a hint of tea, bespeaking that it is possibly not a 40-year wine or too young to fully appreciate. And I wonder if since we are not perfect we cannot fully appreciate perfect wine.

The perfect alignment for both Lynn and me last night was, as is often the case for me, our waitress, Noel. When I extol the magnificence of my waitress on this forum, I have many detractors, I know. They think I am an a-hole to do it. Rogov says he doesn’t even want to know his waitress’ name. Just serve me, please; thank you.

Noel, noel, the woman would be near perfection for me, if I related better to the term. She would be a 98 out of 100. I would never in a million years express what might make her 100, - how pompous, how arrogant of a human being to say he knows what makes something of value, whether a wine or a woman, perfect. The Angels would say and the thing would shoot straight up to God’s right hand if it were perfect.

Noel is out of a four-star movie set in yore, like Remains of the Day, or something like that. She belongs from another time when some people had infinite class. She looks Anglaise. She is classier looking than most of the patrons: where she has lived, what she has experienced, what she knows, her grace, how she stands, so erect, her face, and hair, her figure. No details, I am going to stop that. She is there rather than somewhere else because of the complementary magnificence of the restaurant's owners: they know class, in their cooks and in their staff, so that the best want to be there, to be appreciated and to be demanded to be their best.

Noel knows that I appreciate her, like her. I communicate that, with my appreciative eye contact, offering her a glass of my First Growth, allowing her to approve the wine, by just smelling the cork, like I do. She knows wine. I try to make her evening as good as mine. She met us at the door, standing in the hostess’s spot, she knew we were coming. She told us how happy she was to see us again, and insisted she take our coats at the door, explaining that she would like to because she had nothing to do at that moment. She was at another table when we finally left. I heard her call from the cold winter’s night, as we neared the intersecting street where our car was parked. She had to amplify her voice almost to a shrill for me to hear it over the din of Main Street. Standing on the cold steps, she called out: “Good-bye, Lynn and Covert, it was great to see you!”
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Re: WTN: The First Noel and 1995 Margaux

by Daniel Rogov » Fri Dec 17, 2010 11:46 am

Covert, Hi....

True that I do not really want to know the name of my waiter or waitress, but what I hope for is far more than a just "serve me, please, thank you" relationship.

First of all on entering a restaurant I hope for a warm but sincere welcome and not one of those totally artificial "Hi! And how are you this evening?" greetings that is so full of false enthusiasm that I might think that the maitre/maitresse d'hotel knows about some odd disease that I have and do not yet even known about. Later, at the table what I hope for is that kind of friendliness that avoids familiarity, that again being sincere and warm without encroaching on my personal space.

Indeed, I value a waiter or waitress who is knowledgeable not only about the menu and the wine list but who seems to exude a general air of both intelligence and what I consider "class" (call that "style" if you like). Indeed I will often invite the person responsible for my table to sample the wine that we have brought with us but I consider that a friendly and not at all an intimate part of my pleasure. If it adds to that other person's pleasure, that is super-good with me.

In a truly fine restaurant I also hope for service that not only respond to but will almost anticipate my needs. I recall, for example, on one occasion in the Auberge Bressane in Bourg-en-Bresse making a point in discussion to my companion of raising the index finger of my left hand. The waiter, noticing that and thinking that I needed something started to approach. When he realized that I was simply gesticulating as part of conversation, he stopped at an empty table to brush an imaginary speck of dust from the tablecloth there and then retreated appropriately.

In cases where service has been exceptional, after leaving the tip, I will not infrequently approach the waiter or waitress who was responsible for our meal and thanking them by saying that they added a good deal of pleasure to our evening.

Truth is over the many years that I have been dining out I remember the name of only one waiter and that very possibly because he was first an assistant waiter, then a waiter, then the senior waiter and finally, in his near dotage the maitre d'hotel at a restaurant in Geneva that I have frequented for more than forty years. Indeed over the years we developed what might even be thought of as a relationship of love and respect and when he died, I attended his funeral in order to tell his daughters how much pleasure he had added to my life. And believe me, I am not a person who attends funerals.

And yes, I have had my share of flirtation with waitresses.

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Re: WTN: The First Noel and 1995 Margaux

by Covert » Fri Dec 17, 2010 12:28 pm

Daniel Rogov wrote:Covert, Hi....

True that I do not really want to know the name of my waiter or waitress, but what I hope for is far more than a just "serve me, please, thank you" relationship.

First of all on entering a restaurant I hope for a warm but sincere welcome and not one of those totally artificial "Hi! And how are you this evening?" greetings that is so full of false enthusiasm that I might think that the maitre/maitresse d'hotel knows about some odd disease that I have and do not yet even known about. Later, at the table what I hope for is that kind of friendliness that avoids familiarity, that again being sincere and warm without encroaching on my personal space.

Indeed, I value a waiter or waitress who is knowledgeable not only about the menu and the wine list but who seems to exude a general air of both intelligence and what I consider "class" (call that "style" if you like). Indeed I will often invite the person responsible for my table to sample the wine that we have brought with us but I consider that a friendly and not at all an intimate part of my pleasure. If it adds to that other person's pleasure, that is super-good with me.

In a truly fine restaurant I also hope for service that not only respond to but will almost anticipate my needs. I recall, for example, on one occasion in the Auberge Bressane in Bourg-en-Bresse making a point in discussion to my companion of raising the index finger of my left hand. The waiter, noticing that and thinking that I needed something started to approach. When he realized that I was simply gesticulating as part of conversation, he stopped at an empty table to brush an imaginary speck of dust from the tablecloth there and then retreated appropriately.

In cases where service has been exceptional, after leaving the tip, I will not infrequently approach the waiter or waitress who was responsible for our meal and thanking them by saying that they added a good deal of pleasure to our evening.

Truth is over the many years that I have been dining out I remember the name of only one waiter and that very possibly because he was first an assistant waiter, then a waiter, then the senior waiter and finally, in his near dotage the maitre d'hotel at a restaurant in Geneva that I have frequented for more than forty years. Indeed over the years we developed what might even be thought of as a relationship of love and respect and when he died, I attended his funeral in order to tell his daughters how much pleasure he had added to my life. And believe me, I am not a person who attends funerals.

And yes, I have had my share of flirtation with waitresses.

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Rogov


Hi Rogov,

Thanks for the intercourse. It is more important that I can communicate than find folks with kindred preferences. Possibly the difference between you and me is in part that you likely have a family. I do not, so that waitresses often provide the closest connection with fellow humans I can muster. I mentioned recently that there is no such thing as a “spiritual” connection possible for me with anybody where great food and wine are not in the mutual picture. I have always been blessed with the ability to form deep, instantaneous bonds with heretofore strangers, but always around food and wine. It might be a tendency one develops when he does not have a family but is by no means a hermit. (My niece does not have time to surf this forum, but in case she might, she is no longer family but part of Lynn's and my core spiritual union, forming a trilogy.)

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Re: WTN: The First Noel and 1995 Margaux

by Howie Hart » Fri Dec 17, 2010 12:52 pm

A bit of thread drift - when I think of a waiter, I am always reminded of the fictional Henry Jackson from Isaac Asimov's Black Widowers stories. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Widowers
Chico - Hey! This Bottle is empty!
Groucho - That's because it's dry Champagne.

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