I'm gonna take a chance that you guys won't completely skewer a newbie and "defend" the poor merlot.
A friend brought a bottle of "Cellar No 8" Merlot (2004, Asti Vineyard, Sonoma Valley) to a party I threw about a week ago. We opened it, poured it, and took a sniff. BAM, I got hit in the face with raspberries and cherries. In fact, the smell was so overwelminginly fruity that I was thinking "oh great, we have kool aid wine - JUST what I wanted." (please note the sarcasm) We tasted it and took a minute or two to consider. It was a very light wine, very little complexity, "smooth" (which seems to be the word of death around here), hints of berries (thankfully, nothing like the aroma)... overall, nothing amazing to write home about.
And it worked.
Here's the thing - it had been a rather hot San Francisco Bay Area day, the gathering was informal; some people were drinkging wine, some beer, some were even sticking to soda. The the food ranged from chips and spicy salsa to veggies/dip, to San Francisco sourdough bagnette with spinach garlic dip, and the merlot was as much a "side dish" as the bread, and being so light, it played off of the flavors instead of competing with them. And we discovered that it was quite the compliment to the homemade bruchetta.
Would I stock up on this wine? No. Would I serve it at a tasting party? No. Would I want this in the colder months? Very much no. But for simple, light summer fare on a warm evening, it tasted good.
A meal without wine is like a day without sunshine.